August, 2000
Message from Sifu Eric Sbarge

Who would like great physical health, a clear mind, and a peaceful and
positive spirit? Everyone. If I say, "Raise your hand if you're willing to
work for these attributes," everyone's hand goes up. We all agree that we
need to work for these most important things, and we're all willing to. But
if on any given day I ask, "How many of you have purposefully worked on
developing your body, mind and spirit today?" most of the (honest) hands
stay down. Sadly, for many people, those hands will stay down for days,
weeks and maybe even years on end.
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Up front we are all sure that we're willing to put in the effort to reap the
rewards, but when it comes to follow-through we simply don't "follow
through." Like the empty bucket that makes the most noise, we are all
loudly proclaiming good intentions, but our discipline and practice remain
hollow.
If a person chooses swimming for fitness, at what point does that person no
longer have to swim to maintain good fitness? If someone chooses a diet of
fresh fruits, vegetables and grains to attain good health, at what point can
that person return to barbecued ribs and still maintain good health? I'm
sure you get the point. Our well-being and self-development are dependent
upon regular and on-going effort. For some, this effort is pure joy: the
continuous process of breaking through mental and physical barriers and
discovering new or dormant powers within ourselves. For others, this effort
is a sacrifice: the price we pay to achieve the quality of life we desire.
Whether joy or sacrifice, we all need to make the effort if we want results.
The bottom line is that, intellectually, everyone understands the importance
of caring for the mind, body and spirit, but in our hearts we haven't really
made the commitment needed to care for ourselves. We let jobs get in the
way, spouses get in the way, children get in the way, such and such get in
the way. Temporarily, this interference can be justified: I need to put in
more hours at work, or my children need more attention right now. But in
the long term, everyone suffers. For you to be the best parent, or sibling,
or spouse, or lover, or employee, or whatever, you need to first be the best
person you can be. And however else you gauge "being your best," it always
requires optimum health, a clear and calm mind, and a positive and loving
spirit. When can you afford to stop cultivating these attributes?
Master Park's Seminar a Big Hit!
Master Park Bok Nam's Pakua Chi Kung and self-defense seminar was an
unqualified success. Nearly 60 students enjoyed lectures on the principles
of developing life-long great health through Pakua Chi Kung; plus, intensive
practice of chi kung and self-defense techniques. Advanced students, from
Virginia, Tennessee and New York, came to study Master Park's powerful Pakua
system. Everyone was treated to demonstrations of several forms beautifully
done by Ion Ionescu, one of Master Park's senior students.
If you missed the seminar, you're not totally out of luck: Master Park has
promised to come back next year, and in the meantime The Peaceful Dragon
still has plenty of his books and videotapes, Fundamentals of Pakua, Vols. I
and II, available for sale. Buy them now and get a head start on your
study...plans have been made for Sifu to begin teaching Pakua after the
first of the year.
Cooking Workshop Really Cooked
If you like to eat food that tastes great, but you also want to eat healthy
foods, you should have been at our workshop, "Vegetarian Cooking Asian
Style", led by our own chef George Lu, and Pewter Rose chef Geoffrey Bragg.
Several dishes were prepared and taught, including basil rolls, tofu dishes,
soups and more. Recipes, local sources for ingredients, and cooking tips
and techniques were shared. Nearly two dozen participants had nothing but
good things to say about the workshop, and plans for another one are already
in the works. Watch for more details soon.
Classes, Workshops & Events
Sunday, August 20th 9am - 6pm. Day Long Meditation
Sifu Eric Sbarge will lead a challenging and very rewarding meditation
session at The Peaceful Dragon, open to students, members and the
public. Anyone new to meditation should find this to be an excellent
opportunity to gain a solid foundation for continued practice.
Experienced meditators will benefit from the discipline of a full day of
concerted inward focus.
Lunch will be included and will be part of the meditative training. To
make this as accessible as possible for everyone, the price is just $29
for students and members, $39 for the public.
Wear loose, comfortable clothing (socks on feet) and bring a meditation
bench or cushion and a towel or small blanket to cover your legs. The
Peaceful Dragon will have some meditation cushions and stools for sale
if you need them.
Sunday, August 27th, 1 - 5pm. Living Zen
Reverend Tejo Munnich, Zen Master of The Asheville Zen Center, will
discuss the practice of Zen meditation as a way for living every moment.
This deep practice transcends our normal way of living and opens the
doorway to happiness and peace in life. Price: $79, and just $59 for
Peaceful Dragon students and members. Register before Thursday, August
24th and save $10! Want to learn more first? Come to the FREE lecture on
Saturday, August 26th at 7:30pm.
Saturday, September 9th Noon - 9pm 4th Annual Tai Chi and Asian Health Arts Festival
Would you like a nice massage? Care to try some acupuncture? Maybe a
lovely cup of tea? Enjoy FREE lectures and demonstrations: Tai chi,
Yoga, Meditation, Acupuncture, Teas and Herbs, Shaolin Kungfu, Chinese
Wrestling, Feng Shui, Chinese Medicine and Kickboxing Fitness.
It's our big annual event, so do stop by and enjoy all the activities.
Debra's famous veggie burgers and noodle soup will be available, of
course. Plus, there will be discounts on joining any class and a raffle
for a FREE year of classes.
Friday, September 22nd - Monday, September 25th. Mountain Tai Chi Retreat
Our second Mountain Tai Chi Retreat at the will be held at the YMCA Blue
Ridge Assembly. Relax and revitalize your spirit with a long weekend of
concentrated training in tai chi, yoga, meditation and chi kung under
the instruction of Sifu Sbarge. This four-day retreat will be held in
the North Carolina mountains just a couple of hours from Charlotte. The
retreat will include lodging and meals in a comfortably rustic setting.
If you've never done tai chi or the related arts, this is an excellent
chance to discover how great they can make you feel. If you're already a
student of these arts, this intense uninterrupted training can help you
break through barriers and reach new levels in your skill and
understanding. Everyone is welcome: students, members, friends and
family.
Retreat hours are 1pm Friday, September 22nd - 4pm Monday, September
25th. Directions are available at The Peaceful Dragon, or by calling
the Assembly directly at (828) 669-8497.
Make reservations at The Peaceful Dragon. Prices are just $329 for
students; $429 for members. (Anyone can become a Peaceful Dragon member
for just $19.95 and receive our member's discount - or you can become a
student and get the full student discount).
Take advantage of a family discount (2 or more people) and save $30! A 50%
non-refundable deposit is required at the time of registration (check,
cash or credit card accepted.) In the event The Peaceful Dragon must
cancel the retreat for any reason, you will receive a full refund.
Saturday, October 14th, Women's Self-Defense
Certified instructor Lynn Adams is offering another of her popular workshops
that teaches proven strategies to avoid and defend against attack. The
workshop is suitable for all ages and includes a lecture and highly
effective hands-on practice. Prices and times to be announced.
Saturday and Sunday, November 4th - 5th Shaolin: Uniting Zen - Meditation and Kungfu
A free lecture combined with a two-day workshop will be offered by
Venerable Shi Guo Lin, 34th generation monk, and lineage transmission
disciple of Abbott Shi Yongshin of China's famed Shaolin Temple. The
workshop will begin Saturday, 11am to 5 pm, followed by the free lecture
that evening at 7 pm, and the second half of the workshop will be
Sunday, November 5, from 11am to 5 pm.
Venerable Shi Guo Lin, former coach of the authentic Shaolin Temple
kungfu monks, who is nicknamed the "Iron Arhat" because of his
tremendous chi kung skills, came to the U.S. in 1992 to spread the word
of Ch'an (Zen). In 1995 he founded the Shaolin Temple Overseas
headquarters, which he currently directs in Queens, NY. He rarely
travels outside of New York for lectures or workshops, but because of
the close brotherhood between the Temple and the American Center for
Chinese Studies (where Sifu Eric Sbarge trained), he has agreed to come
to North Carolina to teach Shaolin kungfu, meditation and chi kung.
This workshop is suitable for students of all arts, at all levels.
Workshop Price: Early-bird price $189 public; $169 members; $149
students. After Nov. 1 add $20. Lunch tickets are available for
vegetarian lunch Saturday and Sunday, $6 each. Lunch tickets must be
purchased in advance.
Brochures
In last month's newsletter, we mentioned that The
Peaceful Dragon had just printed new promotional brochures to help the
public learn about us. We've had to reprint them, and they're ready. If
you know a place that will display our brochures, please grab a bunch next
time you're in, and help with our publicity.
CORRECTION - credit was given to several volunteers who worked on the
brochure, but we failed to mention the fine photographs contributed by
Lawrence Boblas. So, let us now mention the fine photographs contributed by
Lawrence Boblas, with our apologies for the oversight!
Carpets
We did it! Due to the hard work and generous donations
from our students and members, our carpet fundraiser was a success. A
heart-felt thank you to each of you who participated, and special thanks to
everyone who pitched in during the installation and clean-up. The new
carpet looks terrific and we hope for years of service from it.
Member Cards
Many members cards have expired and need to be
renewed. The renewal fee is just $10 a year for the entire family.
(Remember that if you're a student of The Peaceful Dragon you're
automatically a member.) Please note that beginning September 1st, 2000,
all members MUST show their cards to enjoy the benefits of membership,
including 10% discount on all purchases; savings of 15% - 50% on special
seminars and workshops, and receiving the newsletter in the mail each month.
House for Rent
Pineville Area, cute brick House for Rent close to Carolina Place Mall. 3
bedrooms, 1 bath, carport, storage. Big fenced back yard which faces lake
of Pineville. $750 per month. $750 deposit. Pet deposit. Avail. October
first. Call 889 3020.
Help Wanted
The Peaceful Dragon is now hiring for night-time/weekend counter help. If
you or someone you know is interested, applications are being taken now.
The pay and benefits are good and the atmosphere is great.
Put your classified ad in this newsletter, 40 words for $10, an additional
40 for $5 more. See Wes or George.
My Peaceful Dragon Experience
It's a pleasure to introduce two student essays this month. Thank you! We
look forward to seeing more contributions from other students in the months
to come. - Editor
What a Difference
By Joyce Woodward
It's hard for me to believe I'm the same person. The same person who almost
peed her pants the first time Sifu looked at me in Hsing-I class and said,
"Take the count." This is the same person who actually volunteered, when a
volunteer was asked for, to do the form in front of the whole class? What a
difference a year can make.
My husband has a hard time believing I'm the same person. Now I have a good
sense of balance, a few little muscles in my arms and legs, a temper that
doesn't burst into flames at the least provocation.
Now, I look at people in a very different way. We really can't judge a book
by it's cover. The people who come to The Peaceful Dragon look like
everyday people, but they are not ordinary.
I feel fortunate to be part of such a great school, especially since I'm
just a beginner. Fitness activities were never part of my life, unless you
count gardening. Tennis, running, gym class - no thanks. But The Peaceful
Dragon offers so much more than just being physically fit. It truly is
mind, body and spirit. And it's sneaky: it gets into your being and becomes
a part of your life. It's great.
Discovering Life's Blessings
By Tina Dickens
I am so glad that a friend of mine told me about Tai Chi. It has been a
real blessing in my life. I have fewer aches and pains, more self-esteem,
and many more friends than I did before I began studying several years ago.
Of course, I can't do everything that I see Sifu or the senior students do
because of my age and health problems, but there is always something I can
do. Even a brief sitting meditation is good, because the calmness of mind
is as important as flexibility and strength, and maybe even more difficult
to achieve. I wish I had more time to attend classes. My new resolution is
to practice more at home.
Reminder...any student is welcome to submit an article appropriate to some
aspect of our school, or your personal experience. Please see Wes Adams or
Michael Ballantyne, or E-mail to bmk@carolina.rr.com. 400 words max.
Karen McMillan, our Young Dragons coordinator, is in the process of
verifying all the records of who has earned which patches and certificates.
If you're a Young Dragon, or the parent of a Young Dragon, who hasn't been
in for a while, please contact us so we can make sure no one has been
over-looked. You can contact The Peaceful Dragon or Karen direct at 704 907
4229, e-mail lightyears1@aol.com.
[A threshold] "is an interruption in the ordinary response of our lives. It
is difficult to realize how many reactions are merely mechanical."..."Being
cognizant of the threshold itself, a kind of stillness appears. And with
it, perhaps, a realization that one has been asleep. There can be a dawning
of consciousness in these moments of transition, if one is able to become
still enough to perceive them."... "Each of us can remember a moment when a
door seemed to open, together with a feeling that it might not remain open
for long. A decision was required. Our task at such times is to bring
being into doing.
-- William Segal, Painter & author, Parabola Vol 25, No. 1