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November, 1999

Message From Sifu Eric Sbarge

An old recluse lived in a small cabin high in the mountains. One night there was a knock at the front door. When the recluse opened the door, a thief barged in and demanded all his money. When the recluse replied that he had no money, the thief ordered him to give the clothes off his back. The old man complied and watched as the thief took the clothes and stole away into the night. Standing naked in his doorway, the old man looked out across a nearby lake and sighed, "What a shame he could not also take the beautiful reflection of the moon

sifu This traditional Zen story reminds us that we all have what matters most in life if we'll just wake up and see it. Whether we live as thieves or altruists is an issue in our lives, but it pales in comparison with the question of whether we are awake or asleep.

Miss something? Here are previous newsletters:
October, 1999
September, 1999
August, 1999
June/July, 1999
May, 1999
April, 1999
March, 1999
February, 1999
ACMA TOURNAMENT: The Carolinas Association of Chinese Martial Arts tournament is set for Saturday, November 6th. All students are encouraged to participate, or come and support your fellow students who will compete in the tai chi and kung fu divisions. You can learn a great deal watching, so plan to make a day of it. Details will be posted in Studio A. Rhonda Ballard, our volunteer coordinator, also has information.

Thanks for donations to Grandmaster to help with the relocation of his school. The red envelope we sent contained over $1200 and will be very welcome help in the work to open and promote the new school. We all wish Grandmaster the best of luck!

Plan Your Holiday Schedule

The Peaceful Dragon will be closed Thanksgiving Day, November 25th. And we will close the entire last week of December from 6pm Friday, December 24th through Sunday, January 2nd, to give our entire staff a much needed rest. We will re-open on Monday, January 3rd.

Words cannot express our feelings for the gift of this wonderful center that Sifu and Debra, family and staff make possible for all of us each day. Students, work hard and volunteer whenever you can! Your progress and support are a wonderful gift in return!

Help Wanted for our School

Do you have genuine artistic talent or design ability?and maybe some free time to go with it? Would you be interested in designing a poster for The Peaceful Dragon? Please see cultural center manager Wes Adams for details.

COME OUT FOR CLEANUP DAY! No matter who you are, it's NICE to be NEEDED?and if you?re a student or member of The Peaceful Dragon, WE NEED YA. Come anytime between Noon and 5pm on Sunday, November 21st, and help clean and maintain your cultural center. Wear old clothes to clean in, and if you?re handy at all, please bring your tools for some simple maintenance and construction tasks.

Classes and Workshops


Workshop for Women: This is a very special workshop designed to teach you how to be a "hard target" that predators avoid. You'll improve your chances of escape if you are accosted when you understand who you're really in danger from, and when you have mastered a few very effective techniques to stop attacks cold. Peaceful Dragon instructor Lyn Adams teaches this workshop from 9am - 6pm Saturday, November 13th. Just $69 for the public, $49 for students and members. Call (704) 544-1012 for more information.

Meditation: Phra Mana Viriyarampo, a Buddhist monk from Thailand and well-respected teacher of yoga and meditation, is giving an in-depth work-shop on four consecutive Saturdays, November 13th ? December 11th from 4 ? 7pm. There will be a review of some material, and also new things to learn for those who took the first workshop. There is still time to join in this exceptional opportunity. Not sure what you missed the first time? Come to the free Saturday night lecture on November 6th, then sign up, $99 for the public and just $69 for students and members.

Dragon Classified Ads


The Peaceful Dragon still needs experienced kitchen help. We will consider training highly motivated people. If you are interested or you know someone who is, please inquire at the front counter.

Also of Interest


Nelson Highley has been working on an email directory that will eventually allow students to chat with each other in our very own Peaceful Dragon Forum, as well as broadcast special announcements related to classes, cultural center events, etc. There'll be more about this exciting development later. In the meantime, thanks to Nelson for his generosity.

Young Dragons: Thanks to all the kids who demonstrated at the Tai Chi and Asian Health Arts Festival, and at the Novello Festival downtown. If you weren't able to attend, don't worry: there'll be more chances to show off your skills at upcoming events around the holidays. So keep working hard in class.

Chopstick Lore


Folk Sayings

Many countries have a rich collection of proverbs, slang expressions and quips that comprise the found wisdom of their culture: what every person in the street knows. Lots of folk sayings have evolved around chopsticks.

"Fussing about how chopsticks are picked up and put down," refers to nagging about the trivial or irrelevant.

"Even stumbling chopsticks are funny," means a young girl who will giggle at anything.

"It can't be picked up with chopsticks or hung on a pole," is a jibe at difficult people who refuse help or advice from anyone.

"He's never picked up anything heavier than chopsticks," means a person who is not only from a rich family, but one who has everything done for him as well.

What Kind of Wood Is For Chopsticks?

Anecdotes and superstitions about the powers of different woods abound in many cultures. Who is to say they aren?t as powerful and important as their herbal sisters?

Black Persimmon is as rare as jade: chopsticks made from it are for long life.

Chestnut chopsticks can lead to untold riches, or at least help one get by in the new year.

Cedar such as commonly used in canes helps one accomplish goals even in hard times.

Cypress, in Japanese means "tomorrow it will happen," and symbolizes hope.

Zelkova when burned will keep mice away for two years.

Torreya wood has the power to cure a sty when brushed across your eyes three times on August 15th.

Horse chestnut fruit borne with care will guard against paralysis.

Gingko can ward off colds.

Pine is exalted as the bearer of good omens.

Plum has the power to heal toothache.

Etiquette

This is a sensitive topic as there are many taboos when it comes to using chopsticks properly. Some of the important rules will help avoid offending someone; and some rules are more casual but will tell a knowledgeable person how well-mannered you are.

  • Never stick chopsticks upright into the food, especially not a bowl of rice. This is done only at a funeral service with the rice placed on the altar.
  • Don't transfer food directly from one person's chopsticks to another's chopsticks. Only at funerals are the bones of the burned body given in this way.
  • Do not point with chopsticks at anything, especially not another person.
  • Avoid spearing food with your chopsticks.
  • Kaki-Bashi
  • is the bad manners of holding a plate or bowl against one's mouth and shoveling food in.
  • Yose-Bashi is to pull a plate, bowl or serving dish around with chopsticks.
  • Neburi-Bashi is licking the ends of chopsticks.
  • Watashi-Bashi is putting chopsticks on top of a bowl.
  • When you aren't using them, put your chopsticks on the table in front of you with the tips to the left.
  • Tataki-Bashi is to beat on a plate, bowl or glass to call someone or get attention.
Other things to keep in mind are not to wave your chopsticks around in the air, nor drip sauce from food or from the chopsticks. Don't stuff more food into your mouth when it is already full. The beauty of eating with chopsticks is that you learn to be mindful of what you are doing: you eat more slowly and pay attention to how you pick up each piece of food. And you know? the food really does taste better!



To contact The Peaceful Dragon:

Call: (704)-544-1012

Write: The Peaceful Dragon
8324 Pineville-Matthews Road No. 509
McMullen Creek Market
Charlotte, NC 28226

E-mail: comments and suggestions to staff@thepeacefuldragon.com