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November, 1999
Message From Sifu Eric
Sbarge
An old recluse lived in a small cabin high in the mountains. One night
there was a knock at the front door. When the recluse opened the door, a
thief barged in and demanded all his money. When the recluse replied
that he had no money, the thief ordered him to give the clothes off his
back. The old man complied and watched as the thief took the clothes and
stole away into the night. Standing naked in his doorway, the old man
looked out across a nearby lake and sighed, "What a shame he could not
also take the beautiful reflection of the moon
This traditional Zen story reminds us that we all have what matters most
in life if we'll just wake up and see it. Whether we live as thieves or
altruists is an issue in our lives, but it pales in comparison with the
question of whether we are awake or asleep.
ACMA TOURNAMENT: The Carolinas Association of Chinese Martial Arts
tournament is set for Saturday, November 6th. All students are
encouraged to participate, or come and support your fellow students who
will compete in the tai chi and kung fu divisions. You can learn a great
deal watching, so plan to make a day of it. Details will be posted in
Studio A. Rhonda Ballard, our volunteer coordinator, also has
information.
Thanks for donations to Grandmaster to help with the relocation of his
school. The red envelope we sent contained over $1200 and will be very
welcome help in the work to open and promote the new school. We all wish
Grandmaster the best of luck!
Plan Your Holiday Schedule
The Peaceful Dragon will be closed Thanksgiving Day, November 25th. And
we will close the entire last week of December from 6pm Friday, December
24th through Sunday, January 2nd, to give our entire staff a much needed
rest. We will re-open on Monday, January 3rd.
Words cannot express our feelings for the gift of this wonderful center
that Sifu and Debra, family and staff make possible for all of us each
day. Students, work hard and volunteer whenever you can! Your progress
and support are a wonderful gift in return!
Help Wanted for our School
Do you have genuine artistic talent or design ability?and maybe some
free time to go with it? Would you be interested in designing a poster
for The Peaceful Dragon? Please see cultural center manager Wes Adams
for details.
COME OUT FOR CLEANUP DAY! No matter who you are, it's NICE to be
NEEDED?and if you?re a student or member of The Peaceful Dragon, WE NEED
YA. Come anytime between Noon and 5pm on Sunday, November 21st, and help
clean and maintain your cultural center. Wear old clothes to clean in,
and if you?re handy at all, please bring your tools for some simple
maintenance and construction tasks.
Classes and Workshops
Workshop for Women: This is a very special workshop designed to
teach you how to be a "hard target" that predators avoid. You'll improve
your chances of escape if you are accosted when you understand who
you're really in danger from,
and when you have mastered a few very effective techniques to stop
attacks cold. Peaceful Dragon instructor Lyn Adams teaches this workshop
from 9am - 6pm Saturday, November 13th. Just $69 for the public, $49 for
students and members. Call (704) 544-1012 for more information.
Meditation: Phra Mana Viriyarampo, a Buddhist monk from Thailand and well-respected
teacher of yoga and meditation, is giving an in-depth work-shop on four
consecutive Saturdays, November 13th ? December 11th from 4 ? 7pm. There
will be a review of some material, and also new things to learn for
those who took the first workshop. There is still time to join in this
exceptional opportunity. Not sure what you missed the first time? Come
to the free Saturday night lecture on November 6th, then sign up, $99
for the public and just $69 for students and members.
Dragon Classified Ads
The Peaceful Dragon still needs experienced kitchen help. We will
consider training highly motivated people. If you are interested or you
know someone who is, please inquire at the front counter.
Also of Interest
Nelson Highley has been working on an email directory that will
eventually allow students to chat with each other in our very own
Peaceful Dragon Forum, as well as broadcast special announcements
related to classes, cultural center events, etc. There'll be more about
this exciting development later. In the meantime, thanks to Nelson for
his generosity.
Young Dragons: Thanks to all the kids who demonstrated at the Tai
Chi and Asian Health Arts Festival, and at the Novello Festival
downtown. If you weren't able to attend, don't worry: there'll be more
chances to show off your skills at upcoming events around the holidays.
So keep working hard in class.
Chopstick Lore
Folk Sayings
Many countries have a rich collection of proverbs, slang expressions and
quips that comprise the found wisdom of their culture: what every person
in the street knows. Lots of folk sayings have evolved around
chopsticks.
"Fussing about how chopsticks are picked up and put down," refers to
nagging about the trivial or irrelevant.
"Even stumbling chopsticks are funny," means a young girl who will
giggle at anything.
"It can't be picked up with chopsticks or hung on a pole," is a jibe at
difficult people who refuse help or advice from anyone.
"He's never picked up anything heavier than chopsticks," means a person
who is not only from a rich family, but one who has everything done for
him as well.
What Kind of Wood Is For Chopsticks?
Anecdotes and superstitions about the powers of different woods abound
in many cultures. Who is to say they aren?t as powerful and important as
their herbal sisters?
Black Persimmon is as rare as jade: chopsticks made from it are for long
life.
Chestnut chopsticks can lead to untold riches, or at least help one get
by in the new year.
Cedar such as commonly used in canes helps one accomplish goals even in
hard times.
Cypress, in Japanese means "tomorrow it will happen," and symbolizes
hope.
Zelkova when burned will keep mice away for two years.
Torreya wood has the power to cure a sty when brushed across your eyes
three times on August 15th.
Horse chestnut fruit borne with care will guard against paralysis.
Gingko can ward off colds.
Pine is exalted as the bearer of good omens.
Plum has the power to heal toothache.
Etiquette
This is a sensitive topic as there are many taboos when it comes to
using chopsticks properly. Some of the important rules will help avoid
offending someone; and some rules are more casual but will tell a
knowledgeable person how well-mannered you are.
- Never stick chopsticks upright into the food, especially not a bowl of
rice. This is done only at a funeral service with the rice placed on the
altar.
- Don't transfer food directly from one person's chopsticks to
another's chopsticks. Only at funerals are the bones of the burned body
given in this way.
- Do not point with chopsticks at anything, especially
not another person.
- Avoid spearing food with your chopsticks.
- Kaki-Bashi
is the bad manners of holding a plate or bowl against one's mouth and
shoveling food in.
- Yose-Bashi is to pull a plate, bowl or serving dish
around with chopsticks.
- Neburi-Bashi is licking the ends of chopsticks.
- Watashi-Bashi is putting chopsticks on top of a bowl.
- When you aren't using them, put your chopsticks on the table in front of you with the
tips to the left.
- Tataki-Bashi is to beat on a plate, bowl or glass to
call someone or get attention.
Other things to keep in mind are not to wave your chopsticks around in
the air, nor drip sauce from food or from the chopsticks. Don't stuff
more food into your mouth when it is already full. The beauty of eating
with chopsticks is that you learn to be mindful of what you are doing:
you eat more slowly and pay attention to how you pick up each piece of
food. And you know? the food really does taste better!
To contact The Peaceful Dragon:
Call: (704)-544-1012
Write: The Peaceful Dragon 8324 Pineville-Matthews Road No.
509 McMullen Creek Market Charlotte, NC 28226
E-mail: comments and suggestions to staff@thepeacefuldragon.com
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